Change your State,
Change your timeline
The hidden codes running your romantic relationships and how to change them at the root.
If you have done the work and the pattern is still playing out, this will show you why.
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A free masterclass on the hidden emotional patterns running your romantic life and how to change them at the root. If you have done the work and the pattern is still there, this will show you why.
IS THIS YOU?
You have done the reading. You have done the therapy.
You have done the breathwork, the journaling, the courses.
And you are still going around the same thing.
You understand why you feel the way you feel but understanding it has not changed it.
You keep showing up in the same emotional place no matter how much work you do.
You keep choosing the same person in a different body, or pushing away the ones who could actually stay.
Part of you wonders if this is just... who you are.
It's not who you are. It's the state you're running on.
States can be changed once you know where to look.
What you'll walk away with
01
A map of why your patterns persist. Not as character flaws. As emotional states with specific signatures that can be read, interrupted, and changed.
02
Why insight alone is not enough. You already know the pattern. This shows you why knowing has not been enough to shift it, and what does.
03
How to read the state you are operating in right now and recognise when an old code has activated. A simple, immediately applicable skill you will use every day.
04
What it actually feels like to move from reactive to creative, and how to make that shift repeatable instead of accidental.
05
A clear sense of where you are right now, what you have been going around, and what root-level transformation looks like for you specifically.
The Work: In Numbers
TRUSTED PRACTITIONER
5,000+ Clients
12+ years delivering real change and transformation with Belief Coding®, EFT, and integrative practices.
EVIDENCE BASED APPROACH
Healing that lasts
90.7% clinically significant improvement after a single session (PubMed, 2025). Belief Coding study.
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ROOT-LEVEL CHANGE
Not surface. Not symptom. Root.
Belief change recruits distributed brain networks across 32+ regions. This is not a patch. It is a rewire.
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Verified Clients, Real Changes
“Not just insight in the moment, but changes that truly lasted..."
Alastair’s approach to Belief Coding is thoughtful and effective - he gets to the root of issues quickly and guides sessions with clarity and care. I noticed genuine shifts in my mindset and emotional responses after our work together, not just insight in the moment but changes that truly lasted.
He’s knowledgeable and professional, and creates a calm, safe space that makes it easy to engage fully in the process. I’d highly and confidently recommend Al to anyone looking for meaningful, results-driven inner work with someone who genuinely knows what they’re doing. ELITE.
- Ioana Barbu
Professional Athlete & Producer
”He was so gifted at guiding the inner work, which makes all the difference! ."
I received a session from Al and it was super powerful.
Alastair made me feel really at easy and relaxed, he is very welcoming and really cares about your progress, which shows throughout the session.
At the end of the session, I felt truly different in a way that was freeing and authentic. The process was actually really fun as well, which I hadn't experienced before, so thoroughly enjoyed that whilst getting results, what more do you want? It's a win-win, no brainer.
Thank you Al for your dedication to making a difference, for your implication in the session and for working with care and love; it was much appreciated.
- Leticia García, Coach and Facilitator
"I’ve tried different types of therapy before, but it always felt like the language just wasn’t quite right. Belief coding, though? It felt like the perfect fit right away."
Al is truly amazing!! From the moment the session started, he created such a safe, open, and grounded space that I felt completely comfortable being honest and really exploring what came up. His presence, care, and intuitive guidance made me feel so supported the entire time.
I came in feeling like I was asking too much… it’s safe to say I no longer believe that. I left feeling lighter, clearer, and honestly so grateful for the experience. I can’t recommend working with Al enough!!!
- Anna Acevedo, Professional Musician
This is for you if...
You have done the work. You are ready for the thing that actually changes it.
You have already done self-development work and you want to go deeper, not wider.
You know the pattern is still showing up in your romantic relationships, your confidence, or your sense of self. You can feel that something beneath the surface is driving your choices and you want to understand what it is.
You are tired of dating the same energy in a different body and you know the common factor is you.
You are stuck despite doing "everything right" and you are done pretending that one more book or course will fix it.
You appreciate that holistic and spiritual are not the same as soft.
You take responsibility for your own path and your own evolution.
This may not be for you if...
You are looking for a quick fix, a saviour, or someone to wave a magic wand over your life. This is deeply transformative work, but we work together. I will show you exactly what is in the way. You are the one who walks through it.
So, are you ready to see what you've been going around?
Let's get to work
Created by Alastair Ballentyne
Belief Coding facilitator. EFT practitioner. 5th-generation spiritual practitioner.
12+ years in change work. 5,000+ clients.