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Change your state, change your timeline
THE TEN MINUTE TOOL FOR CHOOSING YOUR NEW RELATIONSHIP TIMELINE
Find Your North: Define what you really want.
Clear the Fog: See where you are standing in your way.
Go: Take the first steps towards your new relationship timeline.
If you're a self-aware single whose love life has felt like the same year on repeat, a core belief has been doing the steering.
North Star is a ten minute self-guided tool that helps you name the relationship you actually want, see the belief that keeps pulling you back to the same place, and hold your direction on one page.
Alastair is fantastic to work with. I knew I was talking to the right man after just a few minutes. As a coach he helped me to unlock some trapped emotions that were holding me back. After just one session I can already feel the transformation.
– Chris Misselbrook • Mind First (1 to 1 client)
Shift Your Timeline in 3 Simple Steps
Ten quiet minutes to see where you are, where you want to be, and what has been standing between the two.
STEP 1
Get North Star
Buy once for £27. It lands in your inbox with immediate access.
STEP 2
Take the Ten Minutes
A guided experience. Name what you want, meet the version of you who has done it, honour the version of you here right now, and see the distance between them.
STEP 3
Hold Your Map
You finish with your direction mapped out to see. The fog clears, the gap has a shape you can see, and your next step is one you chose.
“Thank you so much Alastair! You gave me the gift of knowing myself better, taking that and transmute into something better. The new beliefs we coded together help me tremendously, and I know I’m now a happier person, who feels so much safer..”
– Julie Martinez • Artisan Jeweller & 1 to 1 client
Why the Years Keep Looking the Same
Here is what happens when you try to fix your love life by managing it instead of correcting it.
PROBLEM 1
The Repeat
Different faces, same story. Another year of almosts, maybes and quiet Sunday evenings, until the repeat starts to feel like your false normal.
PROBLEM 2
The Flinch
Every time you get close to saying what you truly want, something tightens. Who are you to want that? So the want stays vague, and vague wants go nowhere.
PROBLEM 3
The Freeloaders
Relationship freeloaders take the seat in your life and pay nothing to sit in it. Crumbs of attention, all of your effort. That is emotional starvation dressed up as almost-love, and somewhere along the way you started calling it normal.
The Timeline That Works
Your state runs your timeline.
Here is what becomes possible when your wants have a name and what is underneath is in view.
Enter: The North Star
How many of these do you have?
Free PDFs. Guided meditations. Red string and golden thread visualisations. Journal prompts. Secret hacks. The self-help shelf keeps growing, and the pattern keeps its seat.
North Star starts somewhere else: with the belief that has been doing the choosing, in plain words, in the spotlight for you to see.
A guided experience that takes you from a vague want, driven by loneliness, to a clear and defined one
Makes gentle room for the flinch that shows up when you say it out loud
Surfaces the core beliefs that have been doing the choosing for you
Ten minutes to complete, yours for life, return to it whenever you want to refocus your path, wants and desires
Goes underneath the pattern, to the belief holding it in place
Works on your device, you can do this anywhere you can get quiet
Years in change work
Clients Served
Minutes to map
Once. That's it.
“Before I went into the session I had brain fog, unable to focus and couldn’t concentrate on the simplest of tasks. Now I’m able to commit to doing something and see it through with ease and clarity. Highly recommend Alastair. Thank you.”
– Claire Parker • Holistic Healing Practitioner. 1 to 1 client.
WHAT HAPPENS IN THE TEN MINUTES
Ten quiet minutes with the part of you that has been making your choices all along.
THE EXPERIENCE
Ten Minutes That Actually Go Somewhere
Experience a deeply guided process in one sitting. Most of your daily choices run on autopilot, from beliefs you have never looked at directly. North Star slows you down just long enough to look. Simple questions, honest answers, real movement.
THE DESIRE
Permission to Want What You Want
Saying a desire out loud can bring up a strange flinch. A little shame, a voice that says who are you to want that. North Star gives you a private place to meet that flinch gently, feel what is under it, and want openly anyway. Love included. Especially love.
THE UNDERNEATH
Meet What Has Been Steering
Under every repeated year sits a core belief about worth, love, closeness, rest or permission. It built your false normal. You will put yours into plain words, and a belief you can see stops steering from the dark. That is the moment people describe as something shifting.
THE MAP
Where You Are, Where You Want to Be
Everything lands on one page: the life you named, the beliefs you found, and the distance between them, plotted like points on a map. A direction you can hold in your hand, and a process you can return to whenever you want.
THE SHIFT
The Alchemy Is Yours
Naming a desire and facing the flinch changes something in the moment you do it. Honesty and an open mind are all North Star asks of you. And if your map shows you something bigger, there are ways to go further with me, whenever you choose.
“Since our session I definitely feel a shift! My usual habit of feeling like I have to say yes to everything is gone. I feel more grounded! I’m saying no to things that don’t align and I haven’t been so worried about failing or what content I’m posting”
– Corinne Shields • UGC Creator. 1-1 client
Real Clients. Real Wins.
These are just a few of the results and experiences shared by people I've worked with to reconnect with a healthier, more conscious and aligned North Star in their lives.
"I had results quickly and it keeps cooking in the best way week after week)"
I genuinely think Alastair is the best at what he does! Especially Belief Coding, which has been so transformative for me!
I have a huge interest in personal development, so I have experience with various techniques and other professionals.
Belief Coding with Alastair is different not only because belief coding is a damn great method (it does work, and for me, it did fast! I had results quickly and it keeps cooking in the best way week after week), but because of the person he is: compassionate, wise, and grounded. And above all, he has the best sense of integrity. Any technique meant to bring deep results will touch on delicate aspects of the psyche, so I believe we should do that only with people we can genuinely trust, and Alastair is one of them.
He is focused on things that actually work. I emphasize on that because there are professionals who are good and sincere, but won’t bring you actual results, and if we choose a belief coding session, we want more than something that will feel nice at the moment: we do seek real, tangible, factual change.
With Alastair, I had no fear of judgment: I knew anything that would pop out would be welcomed for what it was. If I had not felt safe the way I felt, I wouldn’t have been able to dive deep into what I was feeling and why, but I felt I could let go and share everything relevant.
Thank you so much Alastair! You gave me the gift of knowing myself better, taking that and transmute into something better.
The new beliefs we coded together help me tremendously, and I know I’m now a happier person, who feels so much safer.
Julie Martinez
Artisan Jeweller
"I’ve noticed it easier to make some positive changes in my life, and am feeling a newfound sense of freedom"
"I wasn't sure what to expect, but Alastair guided me through the Belief Coding session explaining each step fully to make sure I felt safe and supported.
His approach is warm and inviting, making it easy to open up and explore the often difficult topics which came up through the session. Since our session, I’ve noticed it easier to make some positive changes in my life, and am feeling a newfound sense of freedom and ease around things which used to challenge me.
I’m looking forward to noticing more inner growth, and would be happy to book in for another session to explore things further in even more depth.
Kate Whitley
Coach and Neurodiversity advocate
"The internal shift was almost immediate and deeply clarifying, while the external world reorganized more gradually through a natural ripple effect over the days and weeks that followed."
The session was exceptionally well-led, grounded, compassionate, and insightful. Alastair created a safe and clear container that allowed me to fully understand what belief coding is, where the identified belief originated, and how it was being held in my system. The process was efficient without feeling rushed, empowering without bypassing, and deeply respectful of my autonomy throughout.
What stood out most was the ability to address the belief in real time and anchor a new one in a way that felt embodied and sustainable, not conceptual or performative.
In the two weeks since that single session, I’ve experienced a noticeable ripple effect across multiple areas of my life: family dynamics, personal relationships, business decisions, and how I show up in the world in everyday interactions. The shift has been subtle yet very profound, an internal recalibration rather than a forced change.
I also want to name something important without fear-mongering: belief coding can involve the shedding of an old identity and the emergence of a new one. For me, this was a dynamic and living process.
The internal shift was almost immediate and deeply clarifying, while the external world reorganized more gradually through a natural ripple effect over the days and weeks that followed.
There was a wave-like ebb and flow as my new internal orientation interacted with long-standing external patterns, not chaotic or overwhelming, but undeniably impactful. Throughout this process, the work supported a natural reorganization that ultimately felt empowering, grounded, and liberating.
I’ve worked with Alastair for several years across multiple modalities focused on subconscious belief work.
He consistently demonstrates professionalism, integrity, and deep skill. That said, belief coding, and his ability to work with it, is the most potent and effective modality I’ve personally experienced to date.
I’m sharing this from the perspective of someone who has worked deeply with personal development for years, while also navigating business ownership, motherhood, and real life. I would confidently recommend belief coding with Alastair to anyone seeking meaningful, lasting change at the identity level.
Jenny Keiper
Martial Arts Instructor / Head of Kenpo 5.0 online academy
Meet Alastair, your guide
Hi, I'm Alastair. I love North Star because I was tired of watching self-aware singles struggle with the same love and relationship patterns on repeat. Ten minutes with North Star can set you on a different path.
After 12+ years in change work and 7,000+ people helped, I'm always looking for ways to make this simpler: real results, without the fluff, and without another inbox full of freebies that promised the earth and gathered dust.
North Star helps if you've ever been in survival mode, or been told you were delusional for wanting life to look and feel a certain way. When it comes to love, you deserve someone who actually likes you, appreciates you, and knows they are lucky to have you in their life.
A lot of relationships start because someone is lonely. Take it from me, loneliness makes a terrible matchmaker.
I wish I'd had North Star for every client who struggled to get clear on what they wanted, and who they wanted in their life. It would have saved so much time. Now it's here. See what you want, and see what has been standing in your way.
12+ years in change work
7000+ people served in change work worldwide
Accredited Belief Coding Facilitator, EFT Practitioner and trained teacher
Known for simplifying complex problems into clear, actionable steps
“We need better access to what creates meaningful change. This is a time for action”
- Alastair Ballentyne •
Here’s Everything You Get for £27
Ten quiet minutes, one process, and a direction that is truly yours.
One guided tool. One page to keep. Yours for £27, once.
The North Star guided tool
The Map: your direction on one page, yours to keep
Lifetime access, return whenever the aim moves
Delivered to your inbox the moment you buy
“I came in feeling like I was asking too much… it’s safe to say I no longer believe that. I left feeling lighter, clearer, and honestly so grateful for the experience. I can’t recommend working with Al enough!!!”
– Anna Acevedo • Professional Musician. 1 to 1 client.
Here's How North Star Compares
Most ways of working out what you want leave you circling. Here is why this feels different.
NORTH STAR
Take ten honest minutes with yourself
Asks what you actually want, and makes room for the flinch when it comes
Looks underneath, at the core beliefs holding things where they are
Finishes with your direction ready for you to take action from where you are towards where you want to be
Complete in one sitting, and yours to return to whenever your desires shift
Awareness of what needs to be corrected at the root, so your timeline can shift with it
THE OLD WAY
Years of circling and surface level questions
Another year funding relationship freeloaders
Journals full of feelings with no direction at the end
Vision boards for a life you'd struggle to say out loud
Pushing harder at the surface while the underneath stays in charge
Waiting to feel ready, sure, or deserving first
“The work we did together was incredibly thorough, reaching into all the cracks and crevices until light shone through every shadow. It was solid, focused work, and I walked away feeling high!”
– Francesca Way •Tarotist, teacher, ritualist & artist. 1 to 1 client
Got a Question?
We've got you covered.
How fast will I see a shift?
The ten minutes are where it starts: a want gets named, and the belief behind the flinch comes into view. How that moves through your life from there is personal, and your map is there to come back to whenever you need it.
Why do you talk about Relationships?
elationships are where patterns show up loudest. The same core belief that runs a love life often runs work, money and friendships too, and love is usually where it gets noticed first. Change your state, change your timeline, in whichever part of life you point North Star at.
What is a Relationship Freeloader?
Someone who takes the seat in your life and pays nothing to sit in it. Crumbs of attention, all of your effort. The label names a pattern, and North Star looks at the belief that keeps the seat open.
Is this beginner friendly?
Yes. You need no background in personal development. If you can be honest with yourself for ten quiet minutes, you have everything it asks for.
What exactly do I get?
The North Star guided tool, a guided process to draw your map forwards on one page, and lifetime access, delivered to your inbox the moment you buy.
Who is this best for?
Self-aware singles who have done the work and still see the same pattern on repeat. You know the life you want, and it feels a long way from where you are standing.
What if wanting things makes me uncomfortable?
That discomfort is the flinch, and it is part of the process. North Star gives you a private place to meet it gently, see what sits under it, and let's you want openly without shame.
What if I don't know what I want?
That is a good place to start. North Star asks simple questions that help a vague want find its words, and the flinch often points straight at what matters most.
How is this different from journalling?
A journal holds your feelings. North Star gives them a direction. It takes you from what you want, to the belief underneath, and that shows the gap between where you are and where you want to go.
Do I get lifetime access?
Yes. Come back whenever your aim moves, your life changes, or you feel yourself drifting.
Is there support if I get stuck?
Yes. Reply to any of my emails or write to [email protected] and a real human, me, will point you in the right direction.
What if this doesn't work for me?
Take North Star. Sit with the movements, but most importantly - you have to take action. Any action, doesn't matter how big or small, if you do it like you mean it, are fully invested, that is the root of meaningful evolution. We are not working with magic beans here, this is about you taking a step. If within 14 days you feel it has given you nothing, email me and I will refund you in full.
This Is Your Moment to Choose Connection on Purpose
Find your north. Clear the fog. Move. Change your state, change your timeline, starting with ten quiet minutes.
“I’d highly and confidently recommend Al to anyone looking for meaningful, results-driven inner work with someone who genuinely knows what they’re doing. ELITE.”
– Ioana Barbu• Professional Athlete. 1 to 1 client
