You have done the work. You have read the books. You have sat in the therapist's chair.
And the romantic loop you thought you had outgrown is still running.
Because the pattern is not the problem. The belief underneath it is. A subconscious code,
embedded before you had any say in the terms, deciding what kind of love someone like you is allowed to have.
And until that code is found and dissolved at the root, the pattern stays exactly where it is.
The Resonance Compass is the first step. Eleven questions. Three minutes. At the end you will know which of four blocks is running underneath your relationship pattern, what that means for your next chapter, and exactly where to go from here.
· 11 Questions
· 3 Minutes
· Personalised Results

Created by Alastair Ballentyne
Belief Coding facilitator. EFT practitioner. 5th-generation spiritual practitioner.
12+ years in change work. 5,000+ clients.
You are open to love. You believe it is coming. But every time you get close, something pulls it just out of reach. Not your standards. Not your effort. A limit you cannot see, installed long before you started looking.
You can name the pattern. The type. The dynamic. The moment it unravels. You have mapped the whole thing. And it is still running. Because awareness alone cannot dissolve a subconscious code.
At some point you learned which version of you was safe to show. You wore it so long it stopped feeling like a mask. Now the person who shows up in your relationships is steady, self-sufficient, and almost you. Almost.
The numbness. The blankness when you try to picture the relationship you want. The quiet fade from hoping to coping to not thinking about it at all. That is not acceptance. That is a wall built so early you cannot find the edges of it.
Nine questions about your relationship patterns, how you show up in love, and what happens when someone gets close. No right answers. Just honest ones.
You will be matched to one of four blocks. Your result email explains exactly how this block operates in your romantic life, why it has resisted everything you have tried so far, and the mechanism that actually shifts it.
Your result comes with a clear next step. No pressure. No sales call out of nowhere. Just the right resource for where you are right now.